They look so comfortable. And they provide the best view. And the most admired company.
No wonder we are drawn to them.
So I've been thinking about humility, trying to figure out the process of becoming humble and staying humble.
William Barclay suggests simply remembering how unimportant you are to the whole picture: how life and good work will go on when you are gone, how little you know compared to all knowledge, how little we have achieved compared to all that has or will or should be accomplished in the world. Maintaining humility by keeping yourself in perspective, you might say.
But this struck me from a talk on humility given by Howard Hunter in 1984:
"Our genuine concern should be for the success of others."
In other words, we are more likely to maintain humility when we unselfishly seek the good of others and, when that good conflicts with our own desires, we work for that good rather than seeking first the goal of procuring good for ourselves.
So, rather than getting there early to get a good comfortable seat with the best view and near the people we think are cool and interesting, simply getting there, and being happy for the people who have good seats.
I like that. True humility isn't so much focusing on how unimportant or imperfect you are. If it were, then Jesus would never be able to be humble. It's focusing on how important to you the value and welfare of others is and your appreciation of them as individuals. It's believing their good needs and desires to be as important as yours, valuing and appreciating them, being willing to put their needs and desires ahead of your own and being happy for them when their good needs and desires are met.
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Monday, April 28, 2014
Friday, April 04, 2014
Abimelech, Genesis 20, Noble Generosity of Spirit in the Face of Dismay
"Abraham Receives Sarah from Abimelech", by Nicolaes Pieterszoon Berchem (1620-1683)
In Genesis 20,
Abraham tells an untruth and, believing that what Abraham said is
accurate, Abimelech acts upon that information. And then God comes
to Abimelech in a dream and explains that the information is not true.
Abimelech's Response When a Prophet Says Something That is Not True
He does not lose
faith. However he understands that the prophet has said something
that is not true and that if he had acted upon that untruth doing so
would have caused himself to sin. So he chooses not to act upon it.
It is notable that
Abimelech comes to recognize the error after God comes to him in a
dream. This determination is not just something that he just assumed
based upon his own personal experience. His understanding comes from
personal revelation.
Even if the prophet
had continued to declare the falsehood he personally would not have
lived as though it were truth. He would choose to act according to
the personal revelation that he had received.
He was dismayed by
the prophet's pronouncing something untrue, but not dismissive or rejecting. He does
not accuse. He does, however, seek an explanation.
When the
explanation is revealed and it becomes apparent that there isn't even an inspired reason, but that the prophet has
based his declaration upon false assumptions Abimelech treats Abraham generously and
hospitably in spite of those false assumptions and the lie and, even more impressive, he values the
prophet's subsequent prayers on his behalf.
This is a classic
example of a noble and appropriate response of a well-intentioned imperfect,
good person to a well-intentioned, good,and imperfect prophet (or
other ecclesiastical leader).when an erroneous statement by the
latter is perceived by the former, by divine revelation, to be
damagingly wrong.
Abimelech calls it
like he sees it without malice or faith crisis, seeks to understand
why the untruth was stated, recognizes the sin that he might have
been led to commit if he had assumed that the information was
correct, and avoids committing that sin. And he is generous to the
prophet and willing to continue to work with him in spite of the prophet's error and he welcomes the prophet's
prayers on his behalf.
This is kindness,
truth, calm and brotherhood amidst the initial dismay and recognition
of error.
In this case that
is particularly impressive because the erroneous assumptions Abraham
made which led to the lie were about Abimelech himself, something that in most cases would serve to exponentially increase the sense of offence.
Abimelech's
response to Abraham is sober and serious but it does not cause him to reject Abraham's prophetic mantle. And his response to his recognition of prophetic error is, ultimately, the moral high
ground of kindness, generosity, and hospitality in spite of the error
made as well as continued, realistic, appreciation for God's continued calling for Abraham and continued seeking to work with him, rather than against him. (See Genesis 21)
The passage in
Genesis 20 refers to God telling Abimelech that Abraham will pray for
him after Sarah is returned to her home. And it is clear that those prayers are healing for Abimelech and his household. I have a feeling that after
all of this revelation and discussion that Abimelech probably prayed
for Abraham too.
In the ensuing months and years both ruler and
prophet would benefit from each other's prayers, dignity and desire to do right in spite of Abraham's failure to always do it perfectly then and Abimelech's failure to do it perfectly (he failed to be aware enough of the misdeeds of his bullying servants at a later date) in the future.
Labels:
Discipleship,
Faith and Doubt,
Integrity,
The Old Testament
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